The "Fast" Trap
If you were born into the Gen Z era, youâve likely experienced life at "broadband speed." Everything is instant, optimized, and algorithmically served. While this is efficient for building wealth, itâs corrosive for living a meaningful life. The default high-tech state is one of constant cognitive deficit.
Living simply isn't about rejecting technologyâitâs about rejecting the Urgency that technology imposes. At $4M, you have the ultimate luxury: the ability to choose "Slow" over "Fast."
How to Live Like a 90s Kid (Practical Tips)
In the 90s, we didn't have "high availability." We had time. Here are concrete ways to reclaim that feeling even while living in a high-tech city like Shanghai:
Embrace Strategic Boredom
90s kids spent hours staring at the ceiling or watching rain on a window. Boredom is the breeding ground for creativity. Try sitting for 20 minutes with zero inputâno podcasts, no music, no scrolling.
The "Single-Task" Rule
In the analog world, you read a book until you were done, or you played outside until the streetlights came on. Stop "stacking" inputs. If you are eating, just eat. If you are walking, just walk.
Analog Foundations
Buy a physical notebook. Use a paper map. Read a book with actual pages. The tactile friction of analog slows down your brain's processing speed to a human level.
The Contrast: Fast Life vs. Slow Life
| Activity | The High-Tech "Fast" Way | The 90s "Slow" Way |
|---|---|---|
| Information | Infinite scrolling / TikTok reels | One long-form book or newspaper |
| Connection | Instant DMs / Group Chats | Planned meetings / Face-to-face |
| Nature | Photos for Instagram | Walking without a destination |
| Waiting | Checking phone immediately | Letting the mind wander |
The "Outside" ROI
One of the greatest dividends of early retirement is Presence in the Physical World . In the corporate matrix, "outside" is something you see through a window or on your commute. In the simple life, outside is where you live. Try to maximize your "90s outside hours":
- Walk without a phone: Discover your neighborhood with your eyes, not your GPS.
- Physical hobbies: Gardening, sketching, or even just people-watching at a park.
- Community interaction: Talk to the person making your coffee. In a high-tech world, genuine human friction is a feature, not a bug.
Diagnostic Questions for the Modern Soul
- When was the last time I felt genuinely bored?
- Can I sit in a park for an hour without checking my notifications?
- How much of my day is spent in the "analog" world vs. the "digital" one?
- Am I using my tech to build a life, or is my tech using my life to build its data?
Final Take
Technology is a tool for building wealth, but it's a poor environment for living a life. Reaching $4M gives you the passport to exit the digital grind. Don't waste your freedom on faster scrolling. Reclaim the "slow" joys of the 90s: the deep reading, the long walks, and the quiet mastery of your own mind. Live simply, even in a high-tech world.